adoyo molla
1 min readSep 16, 2020

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Insecurities Play A Big Role In Unhealthy Relationships

Anytime I acted out of pocket in any relationship it was because of my own insecurities. We teach people how to treat us and we give them permission to be mean/rude by what we allow. And I do not say this to minimize the experiences, but the truth is insecurities cause us to stay in less-than ideal situations. And so, we need to work on ourselves first. Deal with whatever roots that make us stay in situations we are not happy in or proud of. Once you do the work, and understand just how precious you are, you really won’t have the grace for anyone who treats you less-than. Because once you know your worth, you won’t have a reason to prove yourself. Its either someone wants you or not, as you are. And if they can’t handle you, you will send them on their merry way. You don’t see luxury brands out here trying to convince us they are worth their cost — you either can afford them or not.

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adoyo molla

Be Unapologeitcally You! I write for those ready to break societal molds and live life on their terms,, with kindness and empathy.